Men's Fashion: Formal Attire

There will be times when you are asked to attend a "formal" event. What is meant by "formal" can be different depending on who you're talking to.
There is one thing for sure, change is the only constant. The same can be true for men’s fashion.
Before deciding what you are going to wear, make certain what is meant by "formal." There was a time when every well-groomed man knew then meaning of "formal," "black tie" or "evening attire." For our purposes, let’s assume that "formal" means the traditional tuxedo or dinner jacket.
Decide whether you want to be strictly traditional or will you opt for a modern look. The classic approach is simple as black and white. Black tuxedo, white formal shirt, black shoes, black tie, black cuff links and studs, black cummerbund, white pocket square, and an elegant watch. That’s it pretty much. You’ll not see this too much today unless you’re at one of those very stuffy events where most of the men are over seventy, or on the head waiter at the local four star restaurant (sans the watch).
SHIRT-
Along with the shoes, the shirt is not really an accessory, but since we’re talking, the shirt should be white and pleated in the front, with either a winged or traditional collar. Skip the colored shirts or the shirts with contrasting fronts or collars and cuffs. Leave the banded collar for a less "formal" occasion.
CUFF LINKS/STUDS-
The choice in this category is mind boggling and can lead to some grotesque combinations. You will be fine as long as the cuff links match the studs. You cannot go wrong with the black links and black studs. Of course, forget the studs if you are wearing a shirt with concealed buttons.
CUMMERBUND v. VEST-
The cummerbund is the traditional choice. But, it draws the eye to the mid-section, and it tends to ride up or sag when you’re active. So, if you have a keg rather than a six pack, or if you’re going to get your dance on, pick the vest. If you chose the cummerbund, remember the pleats face up, not down, and compliment or match the tie.
If you have decided on the vest, you do have some options. Generally, you want the vest to compliment your tie. It doesn’t necessarily have to match the tie, but make certain that they don’t clash.
JEWELRY-
A relatively slim elegant watch. Leave the Data Bank or the Iron Man at home. This is a perfect time to for that Rolex knock off. There’s no need for a bracelet on the other wrist unless your girlfriend insists that you wear it, and that it is 24 carat heavy link, and she bought it. If you have pierced ears, only diamond or cubic studs. Otherwise, leave them empty. No chains, pendants, medals, or pins unless it’s that kind of event.
SHOES-
The shoes should be black patent leather.
ACCESSORIES-
A pocket square if you choose. But, please remember that you don’t want to be a rainbow of colors. Keep in mind the color(s) of your tie/vest/cummerbund.
The modern formal shop has a vast array of options that allow you to exercise your discretion to you heart’s desire, and to make many a fashion faux pas. We all have seen the prom photos that circulate on the internet every May and June. Unfettered discretion without guidance can be dangerous. Don’t let that be you.